im always surprised by my friends not stopping themselves from sounding clingy w/ guys. just because i feel like its so common knowlege that theyre going to get scared of it. like i could never make myself that weak and vulnerable, i just couldnt do that, its stupid though because i think then i come off as cold and not very into it so whats the middle ground. but everyone knows men usually take it as a burden, no matter how old they are, they get squirmy and want to escape. which isnt to say you should cater to them, but dont expect them to be mutual about it or comfortable like it would be in a movie. i never did that once w/ my old bf. like i wouldnt say those things. which isnt hard for me like i dont feel like i have to, and the super affection is always very fleeting for me anyways haha. its really because everyone has their crutches, and i chose mine before boys, it has nothing to do with affection, and i can do w/ or w/o it.
Taureans have many friends can can always be relied upon in times of chaos. These individuals can be somewhat confusing to their company, one day they may express as warm and loving - the next, indifferent and uninterested. Their sister Scorpio does that too - but as a result of mood shifts. The changing Taurean is a mystery.
Tagged: #I can't control it it's awful
you know those people who are just luminous, like they’re so beautiful and everything they do is endearing and all you can do is stare and hope that some of their light hits you someday. maybe it’s not even romantic but they’re just such people, they’re humans, and they’re so beautiful that you cannot make yourself look away
I’ve been going to bed so late lately and not being able to sleep, but me and em made sleepy time tea and smoked a bowl and were watching Halloween movies, I’m so cozy and sleepy yay
I’ve always found sepukku alluring and I was wondering if it’d be appropriation if
a lot of Americans enjoy that actually. I’m not a numbers guy personally so I prefer something like a word search if I’m in the mood for a puzzle, but to each their own!
railroadsoftware strikes again
advice for getting over a boy u were crazy in love with?
Give yourself one day to cry over him then begin the process of moving on! Unfollow him on all social media and ignore his texts! That’s the biggest thing! Don’t even let him speak to you until you’re fully over him. Even if you respond to one little text you’re allowing him back into your life and you don’t need that. Get your friends together and spend time with them. Be around people who love to be around you and who bring you joy. Getting over someone takes time but you can do it. Put yourself first and do everything that you want to do and keep yourself occupied so your thoughts don’t drift. Believe me I’ve been there and we all have that one ex we were crazy in love with but you will wake up one day and those feelings will be gone 😜
Tagged: #yes listen to her every1